Monthly Archives: December 2023

Solstice Celebration 2023

2023-12-21

Under the heading of things to do nude with your friends, here’s a Holiday Tale.

As I’ve shared from time to time, we have been a part of a community sweat/sauna that has existed for something like 40 years. The land was sold a few years back, we ended up with a 501c3 and a bank account. After a few years of struggling to find a new location, I moved to a new home in more central Tucson, with the best conditions that I could find and we built a new sweat on my property.

We have a tribe, or an extended family of sorts, in our hearts. We have been having weekly “sweats” occasional fundraisers, work parties, a Thanksgiving gathering, and then last week, a Solstice Yule ceremony.

Around 20 or 30 members came around during the evening, happy to see old friends.

It starts with 16 to 18 people with confused expressions on their faces, being given a nail, a piece of wood, a 3×5 card and a pencil.  Around sundown, they all strip into proper sauna attire. DF smudges them, as they entered the sweat, one at a time.

I am waiting inside, next to the ambiance of a candelabrum, my notes are in hand, rolled up like a scroll. I greet each, as they choose their places among the double rows of redwood benches. I had tied red ribbons to decorate the top of my usual Russian felt sauna cap. Before long, job well done, DF enters, finding her own spot on one of the benches, which are now filled cheek to cheek.

I introduce myself as, “I’m Jon and I’ll be your facilitator tonight… Also, by the power vested in me, by no one in particular, the high priest.” I introduce DF as, “your high priestess.” It gets a few chuckles.

I explain, faking a solemn serious concern, “I don’t know if you have noticed, but the days have been getting shorter. If this trajectory continues, the sun may disappear altogether! For hundreds of thousands of years, people all over the world have been gathering during these times and chanting and whooping and hollering, praying for the sun to return…Obviously this has been working.” There are more chuckles.

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Parksland:Part III

2022-09-17

This will be the final post of the “Georgia and Back” series, placed back into the sequence, like Pt.I and II. We are at the Parkland Retreat Center, we left off here:

Parksland: Pt II

Standing nude, I make a full stretch, arms out legs taunt. Then, my fists pound a tight body, bringing the chi to alertness.  The body awakens and softens up.

There is an awakening energy. It’s a desire and very natural. “Good morning world!”

There were lots of singing crickets last night. It was a good evening.

“Gotta keep movin’!” I remember DF’s mother’s 100th Birthday advice. We’re heading back across country from that event.

Yesterday afternoon, I found out about our host’s love of sauna. He says that the season is beginning, but every season is sauna season to us. I’m thinking that I have to encourage him without being too pushy. I find that there are no concerns though, he’s up for it.

In his storage room, he digs through a stack of canvas. He’s looking for the correct tent to abuse and its parts. 

The sauna must however be constructed first. It has been put away for the heat and humidity of summer.

He has created a unique sauna/sweat. A factory seconds bell tent has had its main pole fitted with disks. These disks seal the air vent above at the top of the cone. This traps the heat, similar to a traditional Native American dome.

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Parksland: Pt II

2022-09-16

This a post in the “Georgia and Back” series, placed back into the time sequence, like Parksland Pt.I. We are at the Parkland Retreat Center, we left off here:

Friday Sept. 16th. Morning:

The temperature has been good all night. So, no clothing needed. We slept under our down quilt. With body heat, it felt ideal, bare legs hanging out creating a nice fresh draft in the morning.

I got up once, just naked in the night air and the smell of the forest. I couldn’t see many stars. There is just too much canopy up there, as the trees cover the steep hillsides of this canyon passage. I did enjoy the moon and one planet, a very bright Jupiter, seemingly nearby. The tree’s moon shadows were fun.

This morning, I lie comfortably in the fresh air, as it passes through the net tent. Outside, it acts like rain and there is a cloud above. Should we put the tent cover on? As I lazily watch, the rain only comes from the trees anytime the breeze blows. It’s just the moister and condensation dripping off of a leaf and falling from upon high. This isn’t Arizona humidity.

Sometimes, the slightest burst of airflow is followed by an errant brown leaf. I listen to a bird call and the cricket’s occasional claims. Generally, it is so silent, it is not to be heard, but to be felt. Here lies the still sound of peace. It is in-between sounds, permeating everything including myself. I noticed it last night, as I played a few licks on my guitar. When I stopped, it seemed to amplify the calm silence of the forest. I’ve decided today, to just let the guitar sit in its canvas case and honor it.

The light is directed by a huge cathedral-like canopy of Alabama pillars. Trees are like tall ship masts. Light is reduced to shadows with beams spotlighting the verdant foliage.

In the morning, the humidity had me thinking that there was fog, but it was a sleepy fool’s dirty glasses.

The stream meanders by, a flat sheet, with occasional ripples of a single bug. Where water reflects the golden hews of light, a floor of glowing flat sheets of rocks are arranged in various sizes. Sometimes this morning presents a haze and a hint of a rainbow above the brook. Eventually, the haze has gone, rising away.

It is pleasure on that rock in that creek. I revisit it, and then later again. But a body has a need to move. It’s what it does. A verdant sprig attached to moss, moss attached to rock. In the stream things will grow in place.

Me, I’ve got to move.

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Parksland Retreat Center Pt.I

This is a section in the To Georgia and Back Series. It is out of sequence. It had to be delayed while waiting for “N” magazine to publish the version that I wrote for them. Their policy gets it first. This is an expanded edition with more photos to match this website’s format.

Thursday September 15th, 2022

We’re in the backwoods of northern Alabama. Life here feels like something essential…

…The stream continues to slowly flow by, all around me. 

As I sit, I can feel the density of this rock. This one is solid, smooth like steel. It has no grain. It feels fundamental and secure.

This is a place of wisdom, a place to sit, to just be. It drops hints into my mind while I’m not looking. It teaches, “Just be here.”

A leaf falls from a tall tree, down on me and then the rock, whose world I have been invited into.

 A voice comes out from inside of my being, “Thank-you.”

At Parksland Retreat Center. there is a half of a mile of this stream running through the forest’s canyon. There are dozens of acres of solitude, surrounded on three sides by the Talladega National Forest. My mind has associations of the 40 years since I was last in this state. I hear from inside “Alabama Getaway”,” Sweet Home Alabama,” “What we have here is a failure to communicate.” I think of “Easy Rider” and rifle racks, as I drive down the interstate. Times have changed.

After wandering nude in the small sedan, through increasingly rustic back woods, we find the name of the street to turn off onto written by hand and unofficially, on the back of a stop sign at a quiet shady intersection. The directions become clear from here on, as the pavement becomes chip-seal and then graded dirt, and lastly a trail sprinkled with gravel into the woods.

We arrive to find a parking lot at the rustic gate and see that there is no vehicular traffic after this point. There is nobody about but a small troop of black chickens minding their own business in the brush.

We’re early, having traveled from Georgia and forgetting the time zone change. We decide to explore, after all, we’re expected and there is a compelling joy of free nudity after a week amongst the textile world.

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